TIME – The Currency of Relationships

By Francine & Byron Pirola | November 7, 2025

There’s an old adage in the world of parenting advice: Kids spell LOVE as T.I.M.E. Kids don’t need things nearly much as they need a…

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Martyrs for Marriage Through the Ages

By Francine & Byron Pirola | October 31, 2025

While couple saints inspire us to emulate them in our homes, it’s the martyrs for marriage who embolden us in the public square.    Marriage…

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In marriage, you get what you look for

By Francine & Byron Pirola | October 24, 2025

  Success in marriage can be as simple as looking for the right things. When we were dating, everything about the other seemed exciting and…

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Echoes from Childhood

By Francine & Byron Pirola | October 17, 2025

Unpacking the hidden ways our earliest bonds influence love and trust in our adult relationships.  One of the most powerful topics in the SmartLoving Engaged…

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When Mercy is Hard to Do

By Francine & Byron Pirola | October 10, 2025

  All of us are prone to selfishness. The task of Christian maturity requires us to confront and tame our selfish tendencies in order for…

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Three Tools for Better Conflict

By Francine & Byron Pirola | October 3, 2025

  Every marriage has conflict. Two imperfect people sharing a home and dealing with all the pressures of modern life? It’s inevitable! But conflict doesn’t…

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Making the Connection…with Arguments

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 26, 2025

  Neither of us likes it when we disagree, yet we’ve had more than a few in our 28 years of marriage – some of…

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The Riskiest Place For Our Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 19, 2025

A while ago a viral video clip came to our attention. In the video, a marriage counsellor is responding to the claim that 85% of…

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The Cohabitation Myth

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 12, 2025

Many dating couples opt to live together before deciding to marry, because they believe that it is a responsible and prudent thing to do. They…

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Declining Divorces: A Cause for Celebration?

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 5, 2025

  Exploring the trends and what they mean for our relationships and families  Recently published data on marriage and divorce in Australia have caught media…

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From Complaint to Request

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 29, 2025

The Unforeseen Truth While deep down we really love each other, all couples inevitably have ‘complaints’ about their spouse. They can be as simple as…

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Embracing Hope in Our Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 22, 2025

  Letting go of EXPECTATIONS opens us to God’s grace.    Like most couples, we stood at the altar on our wedding day with hearts…

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Restoring Fertility…. God’s Way

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 8, 2025

  The Catholic Church has some surprising treasures. No – we’re not thinking of the Vatican museums or its countless historic churches! We’re thinking of…

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Champions Make Champions

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 1, 2025

  Anyone who has ever excelled in anything in life, be it music, sport or business, knows that if you want to be the best,…

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Embracing a Pro-Life Heart

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 25, 2025

As we celebrate Grandparents Day on July 27, we’re reminded of the profound role we play in nurturing a culture of life within our families.  …

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